Four Traits to Raising Money Smart Kids

Note: We begin a new sermon series this Sunday (October 4, 2015) entitled Financially Fit. Join us at either North Richland Hills Baptist Church or Cross Church for this important series.

Parents realize the need to teach their children how to handle their finances. And Christian parents recognize the wealth of material available to them inside the pages of the Bible. And because we love our kids so much we naturally want to give them practical wisdom on how to organize their lives around wise financial principles. For many of us with young children at home, the lessons can’t start soon enough. Recently Forbes Magazine pointed to a report done by the University of Cambridge that revealed that money habits are already formed in children by the age of seven.

I took some time this week in the Old Testament book of Proverbs as I read through the entire book in less than three hours. Proverbs is a collection of short and pithy sayings on wisdom that vary widely and cover a wide range of subjects. Wherever I observed a wise saying in the book related to a financial concept such as avoiding laziness, embracing a strong work ethic, or giving to the poor, I wrote each of the verses down in a separate document. And when I was finished reading all thirty-one chapters, I discovered a wealth of material that spanned some fifteen pages in my notes and covered more than 210 verses in total.

The wisdom I discovered has less to do with Wall Street and more to do with Main Street. While some of the sayings I found were hard to live by, none were overly difficult to understand – anyone with a basic education could grab the basic gist of what Proverbs was saying. By the end of the week I narrowed the lessons down to four traits to raising money-smart kids.

1. Work Matters

Teach your children to embrace work, even hard work. Consistently scattered throughout the pages of the Bible, you’ll find a strong emphasis on the goodness of manual labor.

“Do you see a man skillful in his work? He will stand before kings; he will not stand before obscure men” (Proverbs 12:14).

“From the fruit of his mouth a man is satisfied with good, and the work of a man’s hand comes back to him” (Proverbs 12:14).

You may not really value how much God loves work until you contrast the biblical views with some of the other religious texts of ancient times. Pastor Tim Keller of Redeemer Church in Manhattan recently contrasted the Bible’s view on work with that of Greek mythology. No doubt you’ve heard about the Greek legend of Pandora’s box? The first human beings were living in absolute bliss when Pandora gets a box, and the gods say, “Don’t open that box.” But she opens the box only to allow all of the human miseries that afflict us today come out. What was in the box? Death and decay and disease and aging and sickness and work. Note carefully the last thing to come out the box — work. Work comes out of Pandora’s box in that legend. Work is seen as a problem in the Greek legend.

Yet, work isn’t seen as a problem in the Bible. Indeed, when we discover the original couple in the Garden of Eden, we see them working before anything goes tragically wrong with the fall. Work is consistently seen as a positive thing to be embraced even in the perfect Garden of Eden. Work gives dignity to life and a sense of accomplishment. Parents, teach the next generation to work diligently for their work matters to God.

2. Get Money Honestly

The majority of crimes in the United States are motivated by money. Whether it be public corruption, drug trafficking, money laundering, or tax evasion, the desire for more and more money is at the root of all that’s evil (1 Timothy 6:10). The U. S. Secret Service came into existence during the Civil War because more than one-third of our currency in circulation was thought to be counterfeit. In contrast, my time in reading through Proverbs taught me again and again the value of getting money honestly.

“Bread gained by deceit is sweet to a man, but afterward his mouth will be full of gravel” (Proverbs 20:17).

 “A just balance and scales are the Lord’s; all the weights in the bag are his work” (Proverbs 15:11).

 “The getting of treasures by a lying tongue is a fleeting vapor and a snare of death” (Proverbs 21:6).

Parents, teach the next generation to get money honestly.

3. Give Generously

One of most important lessons we teach our children is that our possessions really aren’t our possessions. As a family of faith, we believe God owns everything and He allows us to manage His resources.

Early on in Proverbs, we see these words:

“Honor the Lord with your wealth and with the firstfruits of all your produce; then your barns will be filled with plenty, and your vats will be bursting with wine” (Proverbs 3:9-10).

Traci and I will be married for nineteen years in a few weeks and her experience was pivotal in our early decision to tithe. From the beginning, we’ve enjoyed giving at least ten percent of our income to the church we’ve attended. It’s been a huge blessing to our home.

Yet, we should also teach the next generation to give generously to the poor. Look at these words from the ancient book of Proverbs:

“Whoever oppresses a poor man insults his Maker, but he who is generous to the needy honors him” (Proverbs 14:31).

“Whoever is generous to the poor lends to the Lord, and he will repay him for his deed” (Proverbs 19:17).

“Whoever despises his neighbor is a sinner, but blessed is he who is generous to the poor” (Proverbs 14:21).

“Whoever closes his ear to the cry of the poor will himself call out and not be answered” (Proverbs 21:13).

I am amazed at how the Bible stretches the analogy in the passages above in order to communicate our need to give to those who are in need. Parents, be sure to teach the next generation to give generously to their church and to the needy.

4. Be Content

Whoever loves money never has enough. And despite our relative prosperity measured against other nations, Americans aren’t content with what we have. A recent survey by the National Foundation for Credit Counseling found that 64 percent of Americans couldn’t even cover a $ 1,000 emergency with cash on hand. Another study from Bankrate.com found that one in four Americans does not have a single penny saved.

It’s so important to stress the need to be content with what we have for we live in the most “marketed-to” culture in the history of the world. We must continually fight diligently for the hearts of our children as they are under siege from endless marketing.

Once again, we discover this wisdom from Proverbs…

“Riches do not profit in the day of wrath, but righteousness delivers from death” (Proverbs 11:4).

“Better is a little with the fear of the Lord than great treasure and trouble with it” (Proverbs 15:16).

“Better is a dinner of herbs where love is than a fattened ox and hatred with it” (Proverbs 15:17).

Here’s two experiments to try with your kids to teach contentment:

1) Take a field trip to a dump or a junkyard. One they’re there, they’ll discover  piles of “treasures” that were formerly birthday and Christmas presents.

2) Your child wants a new video game system right away and doesn’t have the patience of waiting. If the system costs $399 and he wants you to buy if for him, sit down together in order to work out a payment schedule where you loan your son the money at the going interest rate of nearby bank. Be careful to tell him that he will need to pay on time and don’t forgive him the note. Show him the real cost of his loan by adding the principle and the interest together. By doing this, you are not only teaching your son the value of work but also the real cost of borrowing money.

Parents, be certain to teach the next generation to be content with what they have.

Sunday, February 9: God is On the Move

Pray Big Feb. 9th from NRH Baptist Church on Vimeo.

I want to thank the North Richland Hills Baptist Church family for your generous giving to Better Together. You have given more than $1.1 million through the end of 2013. And your gifts are making a big difference:

• Our missionary friends in SE Asia are using our gifts to gather the believers there together for encouragement and prayer. Your gifts are also being used to send an evangelist throughout the villages.

The Point Church in Vancouver, British Columbia recently baptized eight people and witnessed several more people coming to know Christ.

• Our church gave a Study Bible to a mother of a recently converted woman in Beijing, China. The mother came to know Christ over the Christmas holiday. We will be sending a small team to Beijing in June to put on a Kids Camp for approximately 100 kids.

• Nine mission teams from NRHBC will go to China, India, Spearfish, SD, and Vancouver, British Columbia.

Better Together is about making disciples throughout the world, the Mid-Cities and in North Fort Worth. It is about reaching more people with Christ’s love and compassion. Sunday, February 9, is the final one-day offering to finish the first year of Better Together. Our one-day goal for February 9 is to raise $300,000. When we announce our one-BLUE-FEB9-PieChartday offering total during “In His Presence” on Sunday night, February 9, our church family will have given $1.5 million to Better Together endeavors.

This money will be used in three ways:

• To purchase the nearly 27 acres of land for our satellite campus;

• To fund missions endeavors such as the ones above;

• And to cover the start-up expenses of the Cross Church campus (our satellite location) as it starts meeting on Palm Sunday.

Again, this is the last offering before we officially own the land. Your gifts are greatly needed as we make a $1 million down payment toward the $3 million price of the land.

As you consider your gift of sacrifice on February 9, I want to remind you of the poor widow’s gift and Jesus’ words.

“And he sat down opposite the treasury and watched the people putting money into the offering box. Many rich people put in large sums. And a poor widow came and put in two small copper coins, which make a penny. And he called his disciples to him and said to them, “Truly, I say to you, this poor widow has put in more than all those who are contributing to the offering box. For they all contributed out of their abundance, but she out of her poverty has put in everything she had, all she had to live on.” (Mark 12:41-44)

From this moving example of sacrifice, Jesus taught us three important truths.

  1. Our attitude is more important than our amount when giving
  2. It is always possible to give something IF we really trust God.
  3. God measures our faith by comparing what we’ve given with what we have left over after we’ve given.

As you pray about what a genuine “sacrifice“ will mean to you, I urge you to read the Bible story of the miracle that happened when a single parent gave away what little she had (1 Kings 17:8-16). God took care of her the rest of her life. And God is still doing miracles today in the lives of those who dare to trust him!

Please join me in praying for everyone in our church family as we consider what part God wants each of us to have in making our gift to Better Together. The weekend of February 9 is going to be a great opportunity to exercise your faith. I can hardly wait to see what God does through us. We really have an amazing church family and I am grateful to be apart of it!